Dating and taking a break
You may be dating people that put you in the position of feeling needed and validated.In this scenario, it may be beneficial to date someone who you feel is independent and responsible.
When you stop getting excited about your next first date, or even worse start coming up with excuses to cancel on them it probably means you’re getting burned out on the dating scene, and rightfully so!
My day-to-day life had gotten so busy that trying to write or podcast would have overwhelmed me. I’m not the biggest name in dating advice by any stretch of the imagination, but having strangers from halfway across the world say is an incredible feeling, but also a significant responsibility in my eyes.
I feel a certain sense of obligation to write and podcast.
Take a break and find the cause of your dissatisfaction, try to come up with solutions to fix your problems or at the very least, ameliorate them.
I stand by that advice, but I realized that this is only applicable if the reason you want to take a break is because you don’t enjoy a part of dating. I would urge you to take a break from dating when it’s a significant source of dissatisfaction in your life in a very direct way, but I think there is value in taking a break from dating even if the experience is enjoyable overall.
a nice conversation, and overall have a great time on a date.